Tener,Roger M ‘Pinky’ h/Cathy S(Henninger)
Burial Date: 2022, 07/12 Age: 68 Lot: 1002 G

Obituary | Roger M. Tener of Wichita, Kansas | Cochran Mortuary & Crematory
Roger M. Tener
July 19, 1953 – May 28, 2022
Born to Max and Doris Tener of Sterling Kansas, and the often wished for (until they had almost a decade of space between them), little brother to Larry Tener, earned his new set of wings after a long illness. Roger is survived by his wife of nearly 49 years Cathy, his brother Larry (Jan), his sons Randy (Jenny), Chris (Megan) and Matt (Amy), nephew Scott (Elizabeth), great nephews Christian and Johnathan along with grandchildren Caleb, Logan, Ava, Lily, Wyatt and Will plus more friends than can be numbered.
Roger was blessed beyond measure to meet his lifetime love Cathy when she ventured from Illinois to the small town of Sterling to attend college. That relationship turned in to one that would last for almost half a century with both by one another’s side to support and love on one another, giving their full measure. Their adventures would take them to multiple states, a few career shifts, schools to become masters of their trades, occasional John Denver and Neil Diamond concerts, so many cats, and three babies who love them both so much. Movies can’t do justice to the dedication each had for the other and the example they set which taught their boys how marriage and true love is supposed to be.
With an avid pilot as a father, Roger was enamored with aircraft from an early age and the addiction never relented. Spending time flying both full size and remote-control aircraft was a passion that he would not only enjoy with his father and brother but would spread to his children and the countless children he flew with the Experimental Aircraft Association (EAA) Young Eagles program. To say that he loved aviation was an understatement. Everything was airplanes from his career, his recreation, his clothes, his conversations, you name it. The only thing that might edge it out was how much he cared for Cathy and the boys.
What Roger did, which many didn’t know, was his quiet 26 years of volunteer EMS service in Derby, Kansas. It didn’t matter the circumstances, when 6’8” Roger showed up to help, you were in good hands. With an analytical mind surveying the situation, and a heart full of compassion, he spent many shifts eagerly waiting to help someone on their worst days.
Roger spent much of his life working at Beechcraft in such various roles as avionics technician and also a producibility engineer which allowed him the opportunity to develop a love of some of the finest aircraft ever produced. He had so much pride in the company and knew that the aircraft he helped build were second to none. As a part of Beech, he was able to not only fly and be a part of the Beech Aero Club but also fly with some of the greatest aviators to venture into the sky. What a thrill to have those stories and that knowledge passed on to his sons.
We haven’t even gotten to the Warbirds. Roger absolutely loved history and revered the sacrifice for our freedom. His love for our nation and the service members who have defended it always brought a tear of pride to his eye. While at the EAA convention in Oshkosh Wisconsin, Roger became a part of the EAA Warbirds association and was able to interact with the aircraft and people who flew and maintained them.
That passion was furthered in to Planetalk Airshow announcing with one of his greatest friends, John “Hooter” Myers. Sightings of the two at fly ins and airshows around the country are things of legends as these two were in the best form when allowed to play off one another while entertaining thousands of spectators throughout the country. Always in good manner, if there was a WW2 veteran in the crowd, Roger and John made great efforts to record their history so it could be preserved.
An avid science fiction fan, Roger could be found in the midst of his friends, doing a “smooth” with Bob Tucker at conventions across the entire nation. That interaction allowed him to establish lifelong friendships as close as family with authors, artists, fans across the country. Such relationships continued through wonderful friends that went above and beyond like David Moreno who was a constant companion and confidant.
There is too much life that Roger lived to be effectively listed in one obituary. His legacy lives in his kids, the friends he made, the aircraft he built, the lives he saved and the ones his love and kindness touched. There will never be another like him and he was and is the true article. He’s the voice in the headset while flying, he’s the strong hand on our shoulder when we need to be steadied, he’s the real hug that can’t be replicated, he’s the weather guy, he’s the patriot and he is dearly missed.
If you’re a pilot, take someone flying. If you’re a science fiction fan, read your favorite book or enjoy your favorite movie. If you’re a Christian, tell someone about Jesus. If you’re married, hug your spouse tight and if you’re a parent, hug your kids even tighter.
In lieu of flowers, donate to something that furthers aviation, either for children, or supporting flying museums like Doc’s Friends and agencies such as the Gary Sinise Foundation.
You’ve got your westbound clearance Dad. Hot jets, Godspeed, tailwinds, and we’ll see you when we get there. Make the landing a greaser.
We would like to create a photo journal of dad so please send pictures to tenermemorial@yahoo.com. We will send a copy once we have it completed!
Memorial Donations in leu of flowers – The Gary Sinise Foundation –
